I live 230 miles away from SIL we are close and speak a couple of times per week. Her DF died this week and is being cremated later this month.
AIBU to not attend the funeral.
I've met her dad a couple of times and o speak to her mum via messenger a bit. Her DF has been ill for 8 years.
Do I need to attend. He was a lovely guy. I've got 3DC 5,6&8. DC 6 is disabled and is fed via gastrostomy and when we do long journeys he has seizures. It's a week day so DH would need time off work to attend or to look after DC if just I went. If we all went we have no one to look after DC. I wanna support my DSIL but we are short on money this month, we have 4 birthdays in June and a big birthday we are going away for the weekend for!
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meffhead · 17/05/2016 18:57
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