DP and I are both in our late 20's/ early 30's.
In the past 3 years, my four best friends and their respective partners have all moved to other areas of the country. We still see them twice a year but everyone has different work schedules and people, like my DP work shifts which include alternate weekends so it's really difficult to organise meet ups.
DP isn't originally from here, he moved here for work 5 years ago and we met 4.5 years ago!! Because of this, DP hasn't ever really made an effort to make any friends up here aside from work colleagues as he's always just relied upon/ hung out with my friendship circle and their husbands/boyfriends etc.
Another close friend has just split up from her long term partner and they were one of the remaining couples that we socialise with regularly.
Because of all of the above, more and more am I just going out without DP, with my girl friends who are single, out for drinks etc and have to leave DP behind which is fine as neither of us are live in each other's pockets type and both enjoy our own time with different people alone.
However, this weekend in all honesty, I've been a bit bored. Last weekend DP and I had a quiet one because the couple of weekends before that were manic and pretty social. But this weekend has also turned into a 'quiet one' with just DP and I. We took the dogs out for the day yesterday and both went off and did our own hobby related activities today, but I can't help but feel it would've been nice to maybe spend an evening socialising with other people either Friday night or last night.
I guess this is my very long winded way of saying, is there a way to make new 'couple' friends? Or I guess even new friends, the trouble with that is, I don't mind hanging out with a bunch of guys and if DP made a few, single guy friends up here I would think we could all hang out together and it would be fine, but I have quite a few single girl friends and DP really isn't keen on hanging out with a bunch of women all evening.
Don't get me wrong, I love DP and enjoy spending time with him alone, but now that a lot of my friends have moved away, I think our socialising is going to diminish rapidly so it would be good to meet new people!
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Summerxsunx · 15/05/2016 21:28
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