DP and I have 3 kids, 6,5 & 6 months
I do everything for them and the house, he works
Recently DP has been letting me lie in at a weekend and him being up with the kids, on my lie in days he will sleep on the couch so I do all the night feeds then when baby wakes up at 6ish I take him downstairs to DP and go back to bed
Thing is, during 6ish and 10ish when he wakes me, he feeds them and that's it! Then I get up at 10 and have to get myself and everyone ready for the day, all the while him moaning about it taking so long and him wanting to go out
It seriously fucks me off
We argue pretty much every Sunday morning about it
So today I'm not really in the mood to go out anyway and he came up and started with this "get up you need to get the kids ready" bullshit
I said I don't want to go out I don't want to get them ready
So he tells the kids we're not going out
I said, you can take them out you know. He says he can't take all 3 of them, when asked why he just "can't do it"
So we're not doing anything and I'm still lay in bed. If I move I'll have to do stuff and just once I don't want to be the one to do the stuff!!
AIBU and a selfish arse though? The kids want to go to the park and are just bouncing round the house now because I'm refusing?
I really just want to call my brother and go for a cider in a beer garden
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AIBU?
To just refuse to engage in life today?
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NoCapes · 15/05/2016 11:30
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