A group of us were chatting at work and colleague A asked colleague B if her sister had had her baby yet. "Yes, it's a girl". Colleague A then asked what her sister already had - a girl, so now she has 2 girls. Colleague A instantly said "oh that's a shame."
I couldn't help it, it annoyed me so much. He's a highly educated single 35 year old with no kids if his own but his comment really shocked me.
For context, I have 3dds and regularly get the head tilt shame we didn't have a boy type comment and it always irritates me. I'm so happy with my family and could never imagine having a boy (had no preference when pregnant). I've had 2 mc and dd2 had to be resuscitated at birth with both dd2 and 3 in scbu.
I basically had a go at him saying his comment was incredibly rude and ridiculous to assume everyone dreams of a boy and a girl. He was clearly taken aback but implied I was unreasonable and changed the subject. I probably should have just inwardly rolled my eyes shouldn't I?
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m0therofdragons · 14/05/2016 19:07
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