(This is about a job interview and employment process but I am a bit f* Uber-AIBU).
Say I had four dates with someone and after those four dates that someone said they wanted to be "serious" and you go yeh cos it's pretty much your ideal.
They want a copy of your passport - just so you can confirm you are who you say you are.
That someone then wants to do a hair strand test to check your recent history of drink and drugs.
Then they want to do a credit check on you to make sure your "kosher" with money.
They want a bank statements showing that pay from previous employers has gone into your account.
Then they want the contact details of all your previous relationships, to check you were in a relationship.
They want to contact the police to make sure you've not been arrested.
Then for "gaps" like travelling, they want you to provide flight tickets and hotel reservations.
If you've been out of work, they want to see your JSA card for those period of unemployment.
If you're been a SAHP and looking after the kids, they want a third party reference to show you were a SAHP and doing the school run.
FFS if my OH asked for all that after the fourth date, I and any one of you would have run a mile, well maybe not because it's pretty much my ideal.
What AIBU-ing me is the intrusiveness of it all, the fact they have all the electronic copies of the above and I doubt if they'll (like most businesses) comply with Data Protection (don't kid yourself - your business is not trashing data after it's need has expired you really think IT goes though every server and workstation its been on as well as clearing out any back-ups and caching DB's), and that around 60-80% (depending whose statistics you believe) of UK companies have undergone a data breach and while doing all of the above the fact that their web app for the data, crashed while I was doing it exposing the underling system providers information, an actual system breach.
It was the bit about proving "Looking after Children" that totally F-ed me off. You now have to give a five year reference because you wanted to nurture your children. SIS just ask you for the permissions to do the checks, not ask you to do all the bloody work for them.
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AIBU?
If this was a relationship these things would be serious red flags (sort of light hearted)
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DependencyInjection · 11/05/2016 16:17
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