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Petty money owed question..!

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HunterHearstHelmsley · 10/05/2016 21:55

I had friends over for dinner a couple of weeks ago, I bought, cooked, supplied wine etc... I struggled to get dessert for a vegan friend so asked her sister to pick something up for me.

Twice now, I've offered her the money. She's said no as I 'did my bit'. She's just text me asking for the £6. I know it's a miniscule amount of money but it's really pissed me off! I'll pay her, no problem but.. just... argh!!!

Am I being unreasonable to be mildly irritated?!!

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HunterHearstHelmsley · 10/05/2016 21:56

Should add that the left over vegan dessert was taken home on their request.

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FetchezLaVache · 10/05/2016 21:58

YANBU, HHH, simply because you were offered twice and she declined. However, for clarity, whose sister picked up the pudding and did she attend the meal?

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Sunnydaysrock · 10/05/2016 22:00

Yanbu! You offered twice, she should have taken money then. I would be annoyed too....and she took it home (the sister I assume)!! Cheeeeky!

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HunterHearstHelmsley · 10/05/2016 22:00

Sister of the vegan and yes she did Smile

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expatinscotland · 10/05/2016 22:03

You're going to pay her? Why? 'Dear Sister, you declined my offer, on a dessert you took home, twice. Now you are trying to bill me. Wow, that's a cheek.'

For real. Send it.

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gamerchick · 10/05/2016 22:03

Tell her to bog off, you offered and she declined.

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expatinscotland · 10/05/2016 22:05

Oh, please! Cheeky cunts like this get away with it because mugs pay up. You offered twice. She said no. She took the thing home with her! FFS. 'You are having a laugh. I offered you twice, on a dessert you brought for your own sister that you took home.'

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Verticalvenetianblinds · 10/05/2016 22:07

Daily fail story for tomoro!

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Jelliebabe1 · 10/05/2016 22:19

Give her half!

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starfishmummy · 10/05/2016 22:23

I would just send it....along with a bill for their meals!

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CancelTheCheque · 10/05/2016 22:36

That's quite strange. I'd be concerned if everything is okay there, does she suddenly really need the money? Or has she forgotten that she refused before?

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