After all the wedding threads on here, I want to just make sure I'm not pissing my guests off with my own wedding next month!
We are getting married in a large city a couple of hours drive from our home. Most people coming to the wedding have to travel anyway, so they'd have to find accommodation even if we had it at home.
We aren't having a wedding party, no best men or bridesmaids to buy outfits for.
We are feeding people only once. I'm a bit worried about this. Wedding is at 4 and We sit down for dinner (3 course meal) at 6pm. The venue closes at midnight. Do you think this is okay or do we need to put on an evening buffet? We aren't having extra evening or reception guests. Everyone coming will go to the whole thing. My rationale is, I wouldn't want to eat that much on a night out! And there's always cake.
We aren't putting money behind the bar. Should we tell guests this in advance? We are putting wine on the table and champagne for toasts and can't afford to have a free bar.
The registry office is one mile away from the reception venue. Should we pay for transport for everyone? Would you expect to be transported?
On the invitations we said we didn't need anything and "your presence at our celebration is enough of a gift". But one person has already ignored this and sent a gift. So should we have a card box at the reception in case anyone else ignores us? Or will it look like we were still expecting stuff? (I'm really not, promise!)
We paid for everything ourselves, do you think we still need to give gifts to our parents?
I've been to one wedding in my life and I can't even remember much of it. (they had a free bar )
Am willing to be told IABU if I am, so I can quickly try and fix it before the day!
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IloveCliveBixby · 10/05/2016 10:57
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