So there is a female child who is about eight years old. Height approximately 121cm (9th centile), weight approximately 32kg (91st).
Child has visibly increased in size, particularly around the middle, so that they have rolls of fat where eczema is making itself happily at home, and thighs meeting together rub to the point of causing a painful rash. Child is becoming unhappy with running around like children do because they are getting puffed out or tired quickly.
WHO BMI charts say that this child is on the 99.6th centile line for BMI, this is the line between very overweight/obese and very obese.
One parent says this is normal for kids to get a bit of podge and a growth spurt will sort it out. This parent continues to feed child calorific diet of processed foods and not increase activity levels via sports clubs or time outside doing physical activities. Their opinion is this is a stage kids go through and the child will level out eventually. This has been their opinion almost six months with no change except weight gain of around a kilo or two.
One parent wants to have it managed via doctors, one to rule out any medical causes for this weight gain (like thyroid issues) and where there is a programme that encourages healthy choices with eating and increased exercise in a child friendly way.
This is partially because this parent's side of the family have had obesity issues and some health problems exacerbated by weight issues. They want to limit unhealthy food options and reduce snacking, educate the child about perceived healthy foods and actual healthy foods (like checking the traffic light system on foods, and understanding that whilst cheese is healthy for calcium needs, it's also unhealthy in large amounts sort of education), and significantly increase activity levels with things like swimming club, karate and dance classes, alongside outside play like walks and bike rides.
Parents are separated and child is resident with the parent who believes this is a phase.
Who is being unreasonable? What middle ground is there? How would you deal with this situation?
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NameChangeMum456 · 08/05/2016 20:43
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