During a bad patch a few years ago, DH had brief affair with one of my best friends. Horrendous fall out, she is a drinker and spilt the beans to her DH who went ballistic - our kids were bfs, so an all round almighty mess. We split but got back together, DH v repentant - she basically terrified him, after counselling we're doing well. Haven't seen OW since, sent her a message to stay away from my family and then blocked her from all communication. An exceptionally manipulative woman who scared the shit out of DH with her bunny boiler antics and I honestly think we came out of it lightly. Anyway. Big event coming up, nothing to do with her, but she's going and I feel sick. Part of me wants to front it out, but both her and her DH are loose cannons, big drinkers and I think it could get messy. My DH says he'll respect whatever I want to do, but having retained my dignity throughout the whole debacle I'd like to keep it and not go. Or is that a cop out ?
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