He pays maintenance every friday. The same amount for the last four years.
Yet every single week without fail I have to text him and remind him to pay it in. 5 minutes after i've text him he'll pay it in and reply 'done'.
If I don't text and ask he doesn't pay it until I do.
Since he's been paying it now for four years I doubt he just forgets.
I've tried being nice, for 6 months I just text 'money please', I sent funny memes about waiting for child support, I've tried asking to set up a DD (not possible as he pays it out of different accounts apparently). I've tried leaving it and not asking, it doesn't get paid until I do.
AIBU to think this is his last bit of control, that basically he gets some kick out of making me ask for the fucking money every week?
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Thenitnurse · 06/05/2016 09:08
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