My line manager left my company 4 weeks ago, I have been signed off with pregnancy related sickness for 6 weeks this week. This means I have to report sickness to one of the executives as my line managers role is unfilled. The executive is known to be sexist and avoids recruiting women into the company. Men are offered all promotions. He has openly complained infront of people when he finds out that female staff are pregnant.
I have only communicated via email thus far with the executive as he wouldn't give me his work number only for his EA who never answers, I have been signed off for 3 more weeks as of yesterday. I have had lots of emails from staff at my company asking what is wrong etc. I don't feel comfortable telling the executive the reason. Staff have also emailed me saying that people are talking about me being off and can't understand what is wrong. Also suggesting I have mental illness ( if I did so what ?! and now I really don't feel like returning to this company as no one has actually asked if I am ok ... Normal in other places I have worked). Also if it was something very seriously wrong with my health I feel the company's profit loss would come before my illness. The executive accused me of lying about being unwell to others before I provided my certificates.
Is it unreasonable to just send in my sick note? And to hide my pregnancy untill the policy states? I am only 7 weeks at present. I have had nightmares worrying about this but not sure if I am not being professional by keeping back the reason for being off. I also think they may try to redeploy me once I tell them I am pregnant as my role is very demanding and needs a lot of focus.
AIBU?
To hide pregnancy from manager
AlwaysShopping · 05/05/2016 18:50
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