Hi, first time AIBU!
DH does his exercise the same time most days. I got home just before him and turned the radio on as he always listens to it whilst working out.
DH comes in and asks why is the radio on?
My exact reply was "I set it up for you as I know you listen to it when you exercise"
His response was to tell me to stop being moody.
I was slightly taken back by his response and so replied "what are you talking about, I'm not being moody, I just did something nice for you!" My tone of voice was admittedly agitated when saying this.
His response was "see, you are being moody"
This escalated into an argument where I raised my voice and was incredibly angry, I basically told him I was in a fine mood but now I am being moody because of what he has started.
DH called me a psycho and told me he shouldn't have to live with this.
I apologised for the extent of my anger but maintained I had a right to be annoyed.
He is insistent he has done nothing wrong.
That my tone of voice on my initial reply was moody (where I told him I had set up his music for him) and that telling me to stop being moody was not telling me off or telling me what to do, but just talking.
Was I BU to be angry at him telling me to stop being moody when I wasnt, and to still be annoyed the day after that he feels he has done nothing wrong?
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Am I overreacting to DH
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DSHousewife01 · 04/05/2016 09:04
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