I'm prepared to be flamed but would appreciate honest responses.<br><br>I've been with DP for ten years. We have two DC aged 5 and 2. I also have an 11 year old from my previous marriage where my DH sadly died. This relationship is very much drawing to a close. We have nothing to talk about, he makes no effort anymore to hide dirty habits which I find disrepectful, he's increasingly snappy with me and the DC, he isn't good with the DC and is lazy around the home. He is on his phone a great deal and I feel as though he'd stray if presented with the opportunity. He chooses to work as much as possible and the DC and I are much happier without him around. <br><br>However. I don't feel that my family is complete. I really would like one more child and do not want to meet another man and have children with three different fathers. I do not want to meet another man, full stop. When discussing the demise of our relationship, DP has said that he thinks he'd find it too difficult to see me regularly so that he'd probably not see the DC <img border="0" src="/emo/te/5.gif" alt="shock" data-emoticon="shock"> This obviously cemented it for me that this relationship is going nowhere. <br><br>He's more than happy to have unprotected sex at the moment. I know it'd be difficult to have a newborn and three other DC alone but only briefly, the rest of the DCs lives would more than make up for it. So I throw it over to you...would I be unreasonable to allow myself to become pregnant before I leave him?