Just coming to the end of a week's annual leave.
Have had a really stressful few months - elderly parents needing a lot of support re health issues/medical appointments, DH and I have had a rough patch and that's had a knock on effect on DD. Job role has changed so work load increased by about a third and needing to learn lots of new procedures/systems on the job. Am currently seeing a counsellor for anxiety & panic attacks and on anti-depressants.
I told DH when I booked this holiday a few weeks ago that I really needed a break and whilst I might do some jobs aound the house if I got the urge, don't expect me to spend the time spring cleaning and doing DIY, which he seemed to understand, but since Wednesday he's basically been in a strop because I 'haven't been doing anything'.
I've had a couple of days pottering at home and caught up with a few (3) friends for lunches/coffee.
I've also done the food shopping, all the packed lunches, school runs, pet care, cooked every dinner and cleared up afterwards, cleaned the bathroom & loos and the kitchen, kept up with the laundry (he's done a bit of that too), done internet banking and other paperwork (and a couple of hours freelance work) and sorted out some issues we were having with various printers/laptop.
The house needs decluttering admittedly, but if I'd started I would have spent the whole week doing it and I just needed a break (to the extent I was physically I'll with stress the week before my leave).
I've had 3 days of sulking and snarky comments now and its obvious DH resents me having had this time off.
AIB so UR to have just kept on top of things and taken some time for myself?
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...to expect a week's holiday to be just that?
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OopsThereItIs · 01/05/2016 00:13
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