My DH has been taking out money from mortgage. He got this tracker flexible mortgage which allows to withdraw funds. He never told me about it. He is an established GP working seven sessions as GP partner and than appraisers and out of hour as well. We sent our two kids to a relatively cheap private school until year 3, year 1. All that time he shouted at me for this then he took them off from private and they started going to public school and still they are going there.
To give you full picture, I can explain to you that our house is broken he doesn't want to improve it, we both have really old cars. When we bought them cheap as well. We eat and wear average. Usually, we shop from Tesco and ethnic shops BUT in 2014 he started buying Aldi's value products which he stopped in last summer on our son's request.
Now when I found out that he has been taking money out of the mortgage he is claiming that I have been spending a lot and I put him in debt. NB: he gave me credit card for period Oct 2011 until l about March 2014 and then around December this year until now. I am living with him since Feb 2005 and rest of time whenever I asked him for money for house keeping he fought with me and gave me ten or twenty pounds only.
Please folks want to know what to do and expect.
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DH kept taking money out of mortgage for more than seven years
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Bloom12 · 29/04/2016 20:42
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