So I'm feeling a little put out and annoyed by the way a couple of my friends are acting lately. I have a group of friends, 7 of us and we have all been friends for 5/6 years now. I'm 26 married with 2 lo, my youngest is 11 months oldest 7. Some of my friends, the ones in question are younger with no children but they live with their DPs. I haven't been able to go out much since having DS2 as he is breastfed and flat out refuses a bottle. The odd time I have been out DH has to give him porridge or something with milk to fill him up and obviously that means I can only have a couple of drinks. The last time I went to a bar with the group, myself and 2 others, 1 of which also has a son aged 2 left early (still 12.30am) as we fancied getting some food. Two of the other friends made a huge fuss about this and were really funny on the group chat the next day saying if we knew you were going to leave early we would have gone to a club and not stayed in the bar. Well at no point did we specify a time that we all had to leave together and we have never done this, I'm 26 years old if I want to go home I will go home. Well now it is one of said girls birthdays and she is arranging a night out. She sent a message to group chat with the details of the cabaret night out and meal she wants in a town 20 mins away and transport was mentioned. Now this is what was said "I'm not sure about transport as it depends if people are going to want to leave early again" Now I felt as if that was a bit of a dig then it was followed up with my name and my other mummy friend "you know because you 2 have kids" in all the years we have know each other and all the nights out this has never been brought up before and i feel that it isn't in a supportive way. Am I just being hormonal haha?
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Superheroessidekick · 29/04/2016 16:01
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