Last year a friend arranged to go on holiday and asked if I would look after her dog whilst they were away. I agreed no problem as he's a lovely dog and gets on really well with my two.
Recently, when firming up the dates, I found out that she would be away on the weekend of my brother's birthday. We will be staying at his place, having a big party as it's a significant one and much alcohol will be consumed.
However ... my brother has a cat and my friend's dog doesn't like cats. He chases them and no-one is quite sure what he'd do if he actually caught one.
I tell friend the dilemma but instead of relieving me of the responsibility she commiserated with the problem but left it as my problem not hers. There are limited places the poor fellow can go and we'll be away for 2 nights so it's not like asking someone else to have him for an afternoon. Her FIL is theoretically available but has always stated he won't look after the dog so hasn't been asked.
So the only thing we can think of is for my brother's cat to stay with my parents for the weekend.
My AIBU question is whether she should have at least made an effort to sort something out rather than left it entirely up to me and my family to work around?
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RebeccaWithTheGoodHair · 27/04/2016 12:24
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