I'm really new to all this, please accept my apologies.....
The jiss of the story is.... My SIL (not really my SIL but never less the mother of my two darling nephew and niece) is in a lot of debt, she has entered herself into a volunary debt replayment plan and as far as I think she is getting on and paying her debt each month or though she has told me that it started off as 5 years to pay the debts but now it's been increased to 7 years.... Sorry if I'm waffling...... She has a full time job and juggles quite a few balls in the air..... She was using a car that he dad gave to her, quite a nice car, tax and insured with no cost to her. Her and her dad have had a major falling out and he now wants the car back..... It actually a motabliblty car so it's got to go back after the the 3 years anyway.... Because of all the problems with her credit record, I casually said that I would take out a loan for her so she could get a new car (she needs a reliable car to get to work, ferry the kids from b4 and after school club). The husband has gone mad, saying its her fault that she has got herself into so much debt and it's not our problem to sort out...... Me and the DH have a very strict attitude to debt (my own child hood was besieged by balliffs and debt collectors, my parents had a very poor attitude to debt) so I said I would never get myself into major debt..... I am a sahm and DH has a very high paid job....... But I just don't know what to do, she hasn't got any other family (my brother was her partner, but she very limited contact with him) I don't know how to help out???
Any advice?.
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Is DH being unreasonable in not helping out SIL?
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Lottieloves · 27/04/2016 11:59
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