would appreciate a little perspective/advice with my dilemma!!
me and DH made the decision to start TTC originally back in Nov when we got back off honeymoon. after looking at finances/debt and what mat leave i would get (stat) we realised it would be too much of a struggle financially at that point so we decided to wait 6 months and get some debt paid off first. i struggled with that decision as wanted to start a family so desperately but i knew it was the right thing to do.
fast forward to march and i saw a job advertised at a organisation i have always been interested in and have always wanted to work for. i wasn't actively looking for jobs but i saw this job advertised on social media and thought it sounded perfect for me. i got a bit giddy and applied. 6 weeks later i now have a interview tomorrow and i am really in 2 minds about what to do....
if i get offered the job and decide to accept it then we are looking at delaying TTC until next year and as much as i would love the opportunity to work there I'm really not sure i can wait that long to start a family. my maternal instinct is as strong as ever and just getting stronger! That is really the only downside about accepting the job, its more money, free parking, better hours, no working weekends, better holidays, better pension, better mat leave/sick leave, better prospects for the future.
I know i haven't been offered it yet & DH thinks i should go for the interview and make a decision if i get offered it but i can't help but feel I'm wasting everyone's time if i can't accept it anyway? am i being silly by putting my desire to start a family before the opportunity of a better job/potential start of a career? WWYD?!?
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happybus28 · 27/04/2016 07:32
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