Really don't know what to do for the best!
We've lived in our house for 6 weeks. The neighbour on one side is a lady, maybe a single mum as I haven't seen a man at all. She has 2 dds, one is about 5, I'd say the others 2.
She seems nice enough. I've taken in a couple of packages for her and thought she seems fine.
The other day, I bought a couple of butterfly ornaments for the garden. Only silly, cheap things.
Today I went out there and they were gone. Her dds were in their garden and they came over to say hi to me. The older one said look at our new butterflies! I looked and there were my butterflies, in next doors garden. I asked the girl where she got them and she said "I found them in my garden"
Now I don't know what to do. I don't care about the butterflies, they were silly cheap things. I do care though that my neighbour must've climbed over my fence to steal them.
Theres a high trellis between our garden but there's a crumbling wall at the back which someone could quite easily climb over.
I really, really don't want to create a bad relationship with this neighbour. We were forced from our last home by a neighbour who had all night parties 5 times a week and almost caused me to have a breakdown. Should I just let it go?
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VicWillia · 19/04/2016 17:05
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