I have a friend I've known for over 20 years. We are close but she had behaved erratically in the past but I usually forgive and forget because she has mental health issues and her behaviours often seem to stem from that.
So the problem I've got is on the last two occasions I've arranged to meet her for dinner (on her suggestion) she has turned up without her purse (only once but she does like expensive restaurants and doesn't work) and then said she doesn't have anywhere to stay that night and can she crash at mine putting me on the spot as my partner for various reasons isn't keen on her.
She doesn't live in the city where I do but used to. She had to move home because she lost her job. I think she tells me she's in my city but actually comes without accommodation and springs it on me last minute. She tells me she's staying with her cousin but I don't know if I believe her. She wants to meet next weekend what can I say when/if she asks to stay? She knows we have a spare room and knows all my friends and family so it's difficult to lie.
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PrincessPeachy29 · 17/04/2016 15:30
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