DD1 is nearly 10, and has always enjoyed dancing. She changed dance schools in January because she has no opportunity to perform with her old teacher, and it seemed a shame not to be able to show off her skills.
However, I'm getting really peed off with new dance school teacher. DD attends a 2 hour session a week, and they are due to do an exam in a couple of weeks. With her old school, they had a brief exam run-through the week before just to check they were familiar with the exam conditions. With this school they are having three 1.5 hour extra sessions in the three weeks before the exam, which we have to pay for, and which "all candidates are expected to attend". AIBU to expect them to do enough in their normal classes to suceed at exam? We have very little family time at a weekend, and pay loads already for her various activities.
Also, her teacher has complained to me about her having had her haircut. The info about the dance classes stated that for this exam they are supposed to have their hair in two plaits, pinned on top of their head. When she started there, DD had bob length hair, so the two plaits thing was never going to happen. She has since had it cut again in an inverted bob (short at the back) something she had chosen herself and been really keen to have done. I assumed that for the exam she would just have to clip/gel it back off her face to be tidy, as it would obviously not go into the prescribed hairdo. However, her teacher has whinged at me about today. AIBU to think that DD should be able to wear her hair however she wants to look on an everyday basis, rather than based on criteria for a single 30 minute long event. Presumably she is not the first dancer ever to have short hair???
I appreciate that if you are a professional dancer you may have to have your hair a particular way, and that getting everything absolutely perfect is essential, however, we are talking about a child that just wants to enjoy dancing and performance.
As you can tell I completely disagree with the ethos being put out by this teacher, however, I am unable to withdraw from classes without giving a whole term's notice or paying fees in lieu. Grrr. I'm tempted to pull out anyway, and hope that the annoying woman wouldn't bother to take me to court over £100.
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jollyfrenchy · 17/04/2016 13:46
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