So. DS is 4 and in reception. He has made friends with another boy in his class - let's call him Bob. Bob has recently been diagnosed with autism and is having support in and out of school to manage this. I speak to his Mum at pick up etc and she has said about his sensory issues and how a lot of the problems Bob experiences are due to being "overly stimulated" and school overwhelms him and then his behaviour suffers. I really feel for the family.
DS is having a party and wants Bob there. The party is at a local soft play - I asked his Mum (when it was just the two of us) if Bob would be ok with it as DS really wants him there and if she felt it would be too full on we'd reconsider the party venue or arrange something for Bob and DS to do alone to make up for it. Bob's Mum was a bit off at the time and said "he should be fine" but was a bit distracted and short.
She has since posted on Facebook about "almost losing her shit with parents who insist on treating Bob so differently and how those parents shouldn't be so narrow minded..."
Have I really got it so wrong? We were all informed of Bob's diagnosis as requested by his Mum and she shares a lot of "Autism Awareness" day things on Facebook. I feel really upset and embarrassed that I've got it so wrong and caused this upset.
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ReturnoftheWhack · 17/04/2016 12:32
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