Back story is me and my wife have recently bought a house (6 weeks ago) and my wife who works part time is barely doing anything to help with the diy unpacking cleaning etc. I work full time and have done almost everything. I asked her to sort out the kitchen whilst I was at work on Monday and she unpacked the plates microwave toaster and cutlery. The rest was still upstairs in boxes. We have no children so heaven only knows what she did the rest of the time.
I've tried leaving her to it and assuming she'll do something (nothing happens), asking her to do a task like 'sort the kitchen out', see above, text reminders during the day, detailed lists, but even then something always gets 'forgotten'.
Our relationship is deteriorating rapidly because of this. Any advice? I didn't think she was lazy before we bought the house but struggling for an alternate explanation...
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To not know how to deal with my partners laziness?
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justsomebloke · 13/04/2016 22:40
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