DS2 is 3.1 and still in nappies.
DS1 was potty trained by now and I keep getting people telling me that DS2 should be potty trained by now.
He shows no interest in the potty and I feel like I'm setting myself up to fail. I try rewards such as a chocolate button but then he just wants the rest of them after having one and screams/paddys for them, which ruins the whole concept.
I should add that DS2 has a speech and language delay and has suspected asd, so trying incentives/rewards and trying to explain what to do I'm not sure that he understands.
I'm just so fed up about it. I didn't enjoy potty training ds1 but at least I felt like I was getting somewhere when he responded to what I was saying to him and understood rewards.
Family keep telling me to knuckle down and get it done, but if I keep doing it and he keeps screaming every time I show him the potty and won't go near it, then we are both going to get more and more fed up and frustrated and he is just going to resent it.
At the same time though, I worry that he won't be poorly trained by the time he starts school!
Health visitor is coming next week to do his 3 year development check, and she told me we will have a chat about his potty training when she comes. She's told me not to get too stressed about it and don't force it, but with family going on and on about it thinking they know best, I naturally listen to the negative comments from my family rather than the reassuring comments from the health visitor.
Do you think I'm unreasonable for not having potty trained him by now? Can anyone give me any tips?
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CantWaitForWarmWeather · 12/04/2016 18:20
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