First post. New to all this baby stuff. 29, first baby, a girl due in 19 weeks. I must start by saying that m DH and I are utterly overjoyed and are absolutely consumed with preparing for our baby and reveling in the wonder of it all.
I was diagnosed with an aggressive breast cancer 6 years ago (triple negative which means it isn't fed by hormones which a fact I calm myself with in times of panic). I recurred two years later (now no evidence of disease) but this of course was a blow. DH and I dealt with it, got married, bought a house and lived our life gratefully. We received the shock of our lives when I discovered I was pregnant and agonized over what we should do. It resulted in a few raised eyebrows from Dr's but nevertheless we have decided to go for it. After all none of us know what the future holds but at the same time it does feel reckless.
Families are overjoyed an close friends have been supportive. I don't know why, but we never really 'announced' it and tend to just drop it in to conversation when we see people. The reactions are never particularly positive and everyone always mentions my health, without fail. I'm tempted to keep my head down and
just chuck out am "ive had a baby" status update when shes here (not that im an avid FB user or anything) and leave it at that. I cant deal with constant talk of my previous health problems because it was hard enough to control my worries let alone now im pg. Has anyone had any similar experiences of keekey or dealing with negativity thrown at them during pg and how did you handle it?I really am surprised at how ive struggled to ignore the worry that I suspect people think im a reckless idiot.
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LizFromLondon · 11/04/2016 16:53
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