Hi all. I've actually signed up just to ask this question, however i've been on this site for quite sometime now.
I would genuinely like to know wether ibu or if its my husband.
We got married 6 years ago. And i can honestly say my mil has been beyond horrible. I have honestly tried my best but she would constantly complain about me to my husband or manipulate a situation in order to make me look bad, or generally be nasty to me. My husband would then either ignore me completely for approximately 2 months. Then we would talk about it and he would agree his mother is in the wrong, but in the same breath would ask when i plan on visiting her next. I have distanced myself from her gradually. A few months ago there was a death of a very close relative of mine who i loved and cared for very much and it just broke me. My mil was horrendous and disrespectful and i ended up losing it at her. My husband was furious and as usual sided with her and showed me how furious he was with me. I was ready to end the marriage.
We have two young children. I dont want them to go to her house without me. I dont trust her. If she can't hurt me im worried she will try to hurt me through my children. She has no bond with them at all.
My husband thinks im being extremely unreasonable. Im more than happy for her to see them in a public place (ill also be there) ie a play centre etc.
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crazydil · 07/04/2016 23:36
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