Both boys are 16. I don't know this lad at all. Apparently they are in school together and share a mutual friend who I do know.
They've had a sleepover at at mutual friends and Ds wants him to sleep tonight.
I've said no. My reasons are i don't know him. AT ALL. I've 3 much younger girls 2 of which get quite anxious at strangers in the house.
My house is a shit tip. Its awful.
Dp is due back on nights tomorrow so he likes Monday evening to relax. He can't with ds as ds is very loud and obnoxious with the family when he has company
Now I don't mind his other 2 mates, I've known for years. One quite cheerfully mucks in and informs me his own house is a tip and hes lovely with my girls so that would have been ok maybe but stranger? Hmmm.
Ds has aspergers and adhd so can be a handful at times. He's had a kick off saying I'm horrible and uptight and a bitch for saying no. Am I?
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blackheartsgirl · 04/04/2016 15:23
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