I have 4 dc (10,8,6,3). 3 out of the 4 of them do the same activity. Over the weekend they all performed in a show. My DN (3) was also supposed to be in the show but, due to a minor injury, was unable to do it. They have been rehearsing hard for the show for the last 3 months and have been really excited for it, especially the older ones. I have looked after DN quite bit for those 3 months. Dsis works so DN would not have been able to attend any rehearsals. One day per week Dsis drops her with me at 7 30 in the morning and then picks her up at 5 30 (I also look after her on other days but not for as long). Dsis and BIL had tickets for the show last night. When I saw them in the afternoon they said they weren't sure they were going to attend because DN wasn't able to do it. I said I am sure the others would appreciate the support even if DN wasn't able to participate. They didn't show up.
I am really upset. I don't ask anything for looking after their child. In fact it costs me as I generally take them out for the day. They never offer anything. I feel like I go out of my way to help them but it is one way street and actually they aren't really interested in our dc and couldn't give a shit about us.
So AIBU to feel upset about this?
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beardedladydragon · 04/04/2016 09:34
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