Ok, mumsnet, please settle this.....
We are getting married in December.
We settled on a song that we would like for a first dance ( I love the song, gives me goosebumps etc. DP is freaking out massively about the first dance so is negative about most things to do with said dance but did say he likes it)
He casually mentions the other day that we can't have that song anymore. When I enquire why, he said his cousin (who's wedding we didn't go to) had it for her first dance so we can't have it now.
They are Facebook friends and not remotely close. I've met her once in 5 yrs at another wedding, I wouldn't know her if she walked past me. Her and her husband will be invited to our evening reception but not the full wedding.
I think he's being a bit U, but I am prepared to be told otherwise.
Unless you have a song written for you, the likelihood is someone else would have had the same first dance song as you
I can't check with every guest and not use "their" song!
(This isn't his backwards way of telling me he doesn't like the song, he just is getting really nervous about the first dance....)
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who is BU, me or DP?
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Ilovenannyplum · 03/04/2016 20:21
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