Does anyone else have this problem with their partner?
We live together, are engaged. Mine has been working today. Yesterday he told me after work he may meet his friend for dinner as he'll be in the area or he may invite his friend to us. I said "well can you let me know because if you're meeting your friend then I can make plans so I'm not at a loose end", basically, just make a decision. He said he would invite his friend to us. Fine.
This morning it was all changed because he decided to meet his friend where he was working for dinner. Fine. An hour ago he rang to say it was raining he had cancelled on friend and was coming home and did I want to go out for dinner with him, I said OK I'd think of a restaurant. Then got a text from him saying his friend was upset and all back to plan of him meeting friend and he'd be home late!
Why on earth can't he just make a plan and stick to it? It's made me so angry. It doesn't affect me that much as I was having a night in anyway but just hate all the chopping and changing all the time and find the inability to make a decision a pathetic and childish trait.
AIBU to explain all this to him when he gets home or am I overreacting?
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WetLettuce123 · 02/04/2016 17:55
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