At a family function recently we were discussing potential dates I had in mind for my twins christening, late summer.
At this point we have not officially asked anyone to be godparents, nor has it been discussed other than in private between DP and myself.
My sister (who I do not get on with overly well) announced we couldn't hold the christening in August as she has two holidays planned and we couldn't hold the ceremony without the twins godmother there! I politely told her that we didn't intend to use existing family as godparents, and she didn't speak to us for the rest of the evening. She's very angry.
Of the people we have preliminarily decided on for godparents, neither mine or DPs siblings are included. I believe that they already have important roles as aunties and uncles and so should guide our children through life and be there for them without this additional title.
I don't want to get into a debate about the role of godparents...etc
But am I being unreasonable to think she is being very presumptuous and kind of rude ?
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to be annoyed my sister has assumed she will be a god parent to my children?
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possum18 · 31/03/2016 15:57
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