I have two friends at work, let's call them A and B, who are very close friends. I'm mates with both, individually and separately, and have been since we all met.
Another woman, C, quickly became very close friends with A and B too after she started, meeting up at the weekend etc, where as I don't unless its a bday or something (am okay with that). Thing is, C and I have never seen eye to eye. You know when you meet someone, and for some reason you just don't click? That.
Since C left the place I work at she's been there several times when A, B and I are hanging out as she's really good friends with them both and they often socialise as a trio. However, in the interim C has decided she hates me, and every time we get together, she will - either in front of the others or more often when the others are at the bar/in the loo etc - say something SO catty and bitchy I'm just sitting there like .
One example - A, C and I finishing the last of several glasses of wine, drinking up and getting ready to leave (B having left earlier) and C leans across the table and says 'Oh, I see what's going on here, you think A likes you, you think you're FRIENDS. Hahahahaha!' A is going 'quiet, shut up, shut up etc', and then we leave.
I know she's just a cow, I'm not particularly worried about whatever I may have done to offend her, but I am getting so pissed off with it. I'm just like... WTF is wrong with you? I've never said anything back, or even reacted, but I am this close to glitter-bombing her and denying all knowledge.
Gaaah it's just so frustrating - I don't feel I should have to stop being friends with A and B and though I avoid deliberately seeing her, she often arrives with them/joins, so I WILL be in her company. AIBU to grit my teeth and ignore her? I suspect anything I say back will just fuel it.
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pandarific · 30/03/2016 21:31
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