We are on a low income/tight budget and I organise all the bills and ask that DP gives me £100 per week (he earns cash) towards the bills otherwise there is just not enough to cover everything.
Now he doesn't do this unless I actually ask and then just £20 at a time so I have to ask a bit. I find it really hard to budget/plan like this. He will buy things for himself that are not essential then moans there is no food (he means easy food that doesn't need much prep/cooking) to eat and that he has to buy his own food out which is more expensive.
I have started just cooking for me and DCs as I used to make dinners for him too and he would not reheat them when he got in late (he works odd hours - rarely here at dinnertime), my cooking is great BTW as I am a trained chef so I make things that can be reheated easily, its not like I make rubbish and he buys his own food/petrol station food etc. a lot on the way home.
We have substantial arrears on the utilities because of this and I am just so fed up of asking for money from him so I expect they will install prepayment meters like they have been threatening. It shouldn't be like this.
Anyway sorry rambling a bit, he should just contribute towards the household bills without me having to ask constantly, right?
AIBU?
Household bills and DP
C0C0 · 30/03/2016 13:52
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