I'm perfectly willing to be told I am BU!
I'm in the middle of organising my wedding. Invitations will be going out in about a month's time. It's in [location removed by MNHQ for privacy] and while we aren't paying for people's travel there, we are paying for 2 nights accommodation for everyone and they won't have to put their hand in their pocket from the time they arrive to the time they leave. No one knows that yet.
One friend has twice made snide remarks to me about the wedding. The first was a few weeks ago of when I was chatting about finding a suitable date. I mentioned one that we'd looked at was the August bank holiday next year "Oh, great, when it's going to be really expensive for people to travel!" I had to seriously bite my tongue to stop myself from saying "firstly, I wouldn't have thought a 50 quid return with Ryanair was particularly outrageous, and secondly, a wedding invitation is just that, an invitation not an obligation."
The second was when I was talking about the new job I'm starting next week and how had I known I would be getting married next year I would have potentially stayed in my old job as it's going to be challenging juggling the two. To which the person who couldn't organise a piss up in a brewery rolls their eyes and sneers "Ugh, no it won't..."
AIBU to feel like not inviting her? I have known her for a long time (getting on for 20 years) and while we do see a lot of each other with a bigger group of friends, we would never meet up on our own. It would, however, affect the dynamics of our wider circle if I didn't. But all this is making me not particularly inclined to spend the better part of £600 entertaining her and her other half for the weekend. Or am I being a total bridezilla for wanting to strike anyone who isn't universally positive about the wedding off the list?
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KensingtonLou · 27/03/2016 19:11
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