They have been staying over at ours for Easter. DH away with his hobby so me, 2 small DC (18months and 4) and grandparents are to have a few days of trips out/Easter egg hunts/ general hanging out.
DH has decided to cut his trip short because of the weather. So him and his friend are coming back here tonight and will probably do their hobby somewhere more locally tomorrow. We have lots of room for the extra guest to stay over.
I finally get downstairs after settling DCs to bed and DM and DF inform me that they're going home! And mention that extra guest is the reason why. Feel that they're 'crowding us out'. They're not. DF has an issue with plans changing at the last minute. He cannot cope with dealing with anything unexpected.
So I'm pissed off that they've gone because:
- They haven't said goodbye to the DCs who are expecting them to still be here tomorrow
- They'll miss the excitement of the egg hunt (and it would've been more exciting with them here instead of just me)
- I have an extra day on my own with the DCs.
- It was quite nice having some adult company with DH being away and I'm sat here like a lemon on my own. DH and friend aren't back till quite late.
I'm sure DM would've stayed when I tried to talk them round. DH and friend will be gone after breakfast and not back till teatime. I cannot see the issue but DF had made his mind up so off they went. I am now eating a massive chocolate egg all to myself .
btw my parents mainly DF are odd in other ways but I haven't the will to go into everything!