BIL is coming to stay with us for the w/e. He is coming from a place about 2 hours by train from London. We live 45-60 mins from the London train station he is coming into.
DH has agreed to meet him there and then do something with him in the afternoon in central London before coming home. I agreed to accompany him.
Thing is, BIL still hasn't given us a time when he is going to arrive. He gas just told us he is 'aiming to arrive in London for 1ish' despite us asking for a train time.
To provide a bit of background, BIL has consistently been about 4 hours late to previous meetups/engagements. His relationship with his parents, his mother in particular is very strained as a result of this as she drives herself to near hysteria over his lateness. His/her behaviour has almost ruined a couple of family events.
I don't want to trek across London to wait for hours in a train station and have told DH. He says I am being unreasonably inflexible and controlling.
Am I?
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to not go and meet BIL?
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ethelb · 19/03/2016 10:32
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