This weekend I was to look after my niece and nephew (10 and 6), from Friday evening to any time during the afternoon/evening of Sunday, depending on when they wanted to go home. My brother, their dad, and their mum have them on alternate weekends, this weekend was their mum's. She'd already arranged months in advance to go on a hen night away (leaving early Sat and coming home Sun), which is why I was looking after them. My brother was working.
Anyway, on the Saturday evening my nephew decided he was going to have a tantrum and strop/sulk and refuse to do anything, including eating the Domino's we got as a one off, and something he was looking forward to. Their mum says I can ring her when he's like that and she'll have a word with him, which I don't do often, but as she was on a hen night, miles away, I thought I'd ring my brother instead.
My brother told me that it wasn't his weekend, that he wasn't going to speak to my nephew as it's nothing to do with him - again because it's not his weekend - and if I want somebody to talk to my nephew I should ring their mother. I told him that they were his children but all I kept getting was "it's not my weekend; ring their mother," so I hung up on him. I was annoyed, more with his attitude than anything else.
The whole time they were with me he never saw them once, even though he finished at 2pm on the Saturday. My niece was hoping he'd come and see them, and even knew he finished early on Sat. That kind of annoyed me as well, as I could see how much it upset her that he didn't want to be there.
Am I being unreasonable to be slightly, somewhat, annoyed at my brother?
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Jannerite · 07/03/2016 13:50
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