I work with someone who "kicks off" at another slightly annoying colleague every now and again, he's a bit of a stickler for the rules and she is a very loud, bubbly, friendly type who is lovely most of the time but shouts and swears in an unpleasant way if someone crosses her. Anyway, this happened the other day, I usually try to keep out of it and stay quiet but she was particularly unreasonable and stormed out, then he left then she came back and started ranting at me about him and I said, "oh, its fine" just trying to say "calm down" without saying it, then she started shouting at me, I said "don't shout at me!" and she just kicked off again, I told her I didn't want to hear it all again as I was sick of hearing their arguments and she shouted then stormed out. We didn't speak for the rest of the day. I have to work with her this week and I don't know what to do. Its ruined my weekend. I thought she'd apologise.
Should I text her? I really don't like a bad atmosphere and conflict. We have been pretty good friends until now!
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What to say to unreasonable (I think) colleague?
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Tanyaaah · 06/03/2016 16:46
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