DP & I moved in together about 3 years ago, when my DS was 6. After all this time, would you not think DP would be somewhat involved? He and DS hardly talk. They never do anything together and one day recently when I had to go out for 6 hours and leave them alone together (this never happens normally), DP just allowed my DS to play on the Xbox for the full time, apart from making him a sandwich. When I questioned him about it, his response was just, "He wont listen to anything I say." My DS still sees his dad every 2nd weekend so I'm not expecting DP to step into his shoes. However, a bit of teamwork wouldn't go amiss. I feel like I have 2 relationships - one with DS and one with DP - but we aren't a family unit. I'm interested to hear others' views on this as I wonder what 'normal' is...if there is such a thing! Should I try and do more together as 'a family'? Will things get worse when DS reaches his teens?
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