And my baby is only 5 months old. Seriously, why would you mention it? Yes I am overweight at the moment but I've lost 11lbs so far & im trying to feel better about myself which isn't easy due to constant sleep depravation.
First off, went to PIL's Friday to show them photos of the baby & us we had done last week. PILs are awwing & cooing over the baby then there is one of the three of us & FIL says "I don't like that one, you look fat in it". Yeah thanks!!
Then we go to BILs yesterday and one of DH's family members asks am I pregnant again already. !!!!!! Really??
Out with breakfast this morning with my dad & he's telling me I need to feed the baby solids as he's losing his belly (he's not - he's 98th centile ffs!) then starts to tell me how I was fed baby rice at 2 weeks & it didn't do me any harm etc, so I JOKILY say - in order to change the bloody convo as I'm sick of it - "ooh that's why I'm overweight then" to which he replies "no your fat because you eat too much". Yes, I walked right into that one but seriously it was a joke so it's nice to know that me having JUST HAD A BABY has no bloody bearing on it. It isn't the first time he's mentioned my fatness after having the baby. I used to be a size 10 so it was clearly a joke...
AIBU to be hurt or am I being over sensitive? Argh I'm furious & feel even shitter about myself now even though I'm bloody trying to lose weight!
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