My son (I'll call him Terry) came home yesterday without his school branded jacket. This jacket had been given to us as second hand as a gift by another family as their son (I'll call him Ron) had grown out of it.
When I received the coat it had Ron's name label in it. I crossed 'Ron' out with an indelible marker and wrote 'Terry' beside it - very clearly.
Terry told me that school staff had insisted he give the coat back to Ron, despite Terry insisting Ron's mother had given it to him. I understood that this might be an easy mistake for the school to make and I was going to have a gentle discussion with the school this afternoon.
This morning Ron's mum came up to me this morning asking why I'd done this; showing me a photograph of the label and writing in a really panicked and upset manner - I had to remind her she'd given me the coat. I think perhaps she thought I had done this to his current coat. This was rather embarrassing for all involved.
AIBU to be really pissed off? What is the insinuation here: that I had stolen Ron's jacket? This is the only explanation for their thought process. What had they discussed it with Ron's mum and not me? The school didn't speak to me today or yesterday, and I think that they should have spoken to me in the first instance, before going to Ron's mum or perhaps in addition to.
AIBU to make a complaint on this basis?
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getagoldmedal · 25/02/2016 20:19
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