Ds5 has just been to a party this morning. There were many new faces there and a few he knew. After playing for a while he suddenly started getting teary that other people were being mean to him...we were watching and couldn't really see anything other than usual boy stuff but it was like the flood gates opened and he was crying his eyes out at everything...falling over, the food on the table, the wrong music being on, not having a turn at something etc the list is endless. I was dying inside....and quite worried why a 5.5yr old was behaving like a 2 yr old.
Towards the end I did see a small group of children sort of playing that ds was the chaser or baddie and they had to run away from him (he didn't even notice) and that made me feel uneasy that they were making him the one to run away from without him being in on the game. One of the boys then started saying they should throw balls at him and I intervened then and told the children they were being not nice etc and took ds away from them.
When we got home he was inconsolable about the party and then about school and saying everyone hates him, he's got no friends and the other children are mean to him when the teachers aren't looking. This came up last term and we talked to school and they were really vigilant and reported they couldn't see anything going on. I believe them, ds can't give any concrete examples of anything happening, it's more like a general low self esteem and feelings that he mustn't be liked. I've seen him at other parties with close friends and on the playground and it's been fine.
I don't know, I just feel a bit uncomfortable and worried about it all....but I'm not sure what specifically is making me feel uneasy iykwim.
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George2014 · 21/02/2016 15:06
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