Just wondering if I'm being unreasonable to be upset about the following really. DH came home the other day and proceeded to quiz our eldest DD whose 5 why she was eating in the living room. I felt that he should be asking me as I was obviously the parent in charge while he was out, and had okayed her to do this. I felt that by asking her he was 1) undermining me and 2) placing the 'blame' on her even though she was only do what she'd been told was ok.
Once I'd told him this he proceeded to inform me that 'I was in one of those moods', and that 'can we please not have any of this fighting over the next few days'.
I told him that I felt this was not fighting, I had calmly told him about the issue I had with what he'd done, and that if he's meaning that I am meant to just shut up, not say anything, and do everything his way then that was not going to happen. But that I'm not fighting.
He then proceeded to tell me that he 'doesn't know what has crawled up my arse recently'. I just left it there, after telling him not to speak to me like that.
AIBU to feel very hurt and upset about this and the way he speaks to me?
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AmIUnreasonablePlease · 20/02/2016 10:18
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