Hi. Need some perspective on this. Dh's beloved nan has died quite suddenly. He hadn't mentioned flowers so I suggested something simple and elegant. We can't afford to spend loads and I think what I have in mind is thoughtful and appropriate.
I've found out that dh's dsis is going to add our names to the flowers from her family (sil, bil, 2 dc).
She has form for being bossy and controlling over dh, acts more like his mum, but now we're married I feel if she's trying to control him, she's controlling me, and I don't like to be controlled by anyone. It also feels a little like she doesn't think our flowers are good enough.
I've asked him to let her know we have our own flowers (which I think she is aware of) and she doesn't need to put our names on hers. AIBU? Should I just let it lie, given the circumstances? I feel quite strongly about it, but I admit to being pig-headed and I don't want to make a fuss if I should really just ignore it.
Thanks.
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Abigailsfarty · 17/02/2016 10:40
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