Hoping for some constructive advice or suggestions on how to deal with this!
We live in a semi-detached townhouse in a new estate, we moved in 2 years ago the day the build was complete, and our neighbours did the same the day after. They seem a nice couple with a young daughter, we nod and say hello if we cross paths outside and take parcels in for each other etc but are not on overly friendly terms, they are a polish couple which is only relevant in that they don’t speak English very well so communication really is at a minimum.
The only issue we have with them is that they both smoke, which wouldn’t be a problem at all, except the husband regularly (im talking 6 out of 7 days a week) smokes outside their back door in the early or very late hours of the morning and (not really sure how to describe this) but basically hacks his guts up for about 20 mins. He clears his throat and you can hear him gathering crap in it and spitting it out over and over again, it just sounds vile. Its that loud it literally wakes us up at all hours, in the hot summer were forced to sleep with windows shut to try to block him out but its that loud we can hear it thorough closed double glazed windows. I have tried slamming the windows shut when he starts to drive the point home that its waking us up but clearly has done nothing.
My brother used to smoke and when we both lived at home I remember always hearing him in the bathroom doing the same thing trying to clear the gunk and tar or whatever out his throat so im positive it must be due to the smoking.
We need to broach the subject as its not only absolutely disgusting to lay in bed listening to or to be woken up by, but some days its 3 or 4 am, so to be woken up by that then try to get back to sleep for work at 6am is causing us both to get very cranky with interrupted nights sleep. Sometimes its around the same time we have breakfast too and listening to that is enough to stop you eating.
Any suggestions as its not exactly as easy thing to go round and mention ‘excuse me but please could you stop hacking your guts up in your garden every day?!’ so not sure how to word it!!!
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shoeaddict83 · 15/02/2016 11:56
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