Met someone before Christmas, they live in a different country. We agreed to see each other when our paths crossed, and were talking a lot over the last few months until last week when they have started being a bit cool towards me. I'm slightly hurt and feel sort of what I felt was genuinely a friend with benefits (good sex, and had some great conversations and laughs so thought the friends thing was pretty cool) situation. But totally understand they've probably met someone closer to home or something, so they aren't bothered.
I don't want to angst over it, or waste energy, so am cutting my losses and not bothering with this person anymore. However, my friend thinks I'm being a bit harsh and should have a chat with them when they can squeeze me in - I think fuck that.
What do you all think?
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Absentmindedwoman · 13/02/2016 22:46
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