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AIBU?

to be annoyed that nursery have withdrawn my childcare provision

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umptyflump · 10/02/2016 18:09

DS2 aged two goes to school nursery one day a week, which I pay for while I work. I cram in another couple of days over the course of a week, over part of two further days and some evening and weekend work. It is a really small school and they have only just started doing two year old places (six months ago). DS has been there from the start of that (and is the only child who has been there that long). Today they told me that as of a week on Monday, the place on a Monday is unavailable as they are not employing the person on that day as some parents' hours have changed and there's now no demand for the places. The alternative days don't work for me, as part of two days I have cover from family which fits in with their and my commitments, the other two I don't work and DS has activities. I need cover on Monday. I said I might be able to move to Thursday if I can persuade FIL/MIL to move to Monday, but MIL works on a Monday. Apparently they will try but it is full. AIBU to be fucking furious annoyed? In the interests of not drip feeding, the head and I disagree on quite a few issues as she's not keen on points of view that differ from her own However it isn't personal :) DS will start pre-school nursery at the school in September.

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IoraRua · 10/02/2016 18:13

Well, if they don't have enough demand that's that I'm afraid, they can hardly keep on extra staff just to cater to you.

They haven't given you a whole lot of notice though I think. May be wrong though.

Artandco · 10/02/2016 18:13

It's a nursery, they have to make a profit. They can't one one child one one day a week so are rescheduling. Hence the notice. It's annoying but perfectly reasonable

Have you considered an aupair? They could do that day and 1/2 another whilst you work. They aren't qualified like a nanny but for 1 1/2 days they are fine to take little one to toddler group or to the park etc locally

umptyflump · 10/02/2016 18:30

I know they aren't there to cater just for me, but it is a small school and the whole thing was designed as a loss leader in a sense, to stop parents sending children to nursery elsewhere and them naturally drifting to school there. The demand was there before, but the twos turned three.

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umptyflump · 10/02/2016 18:30

I know they aren't there to cater just for me, but it is a small school and the whole thing was designed as a loss leader in a sense, to stop parents sending children to nursery elsewhere and them naturally drifting to school there. The demand was there before, but the twos turned three.

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willowsummers · 10/02/2016 18:32

A week on Monday Shock

YADNBU!

umptyflump · 10/02/2016 18:32

Au pair not really an option. I have looked into it, but even the small amount required for pocket money would be too much. Plus we are a long way from things, so it wouldn't be that attractive a prospect. And the only room spare is my office.

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umptyflump · 10/02/2016 18:33

The notice is a problem - I have work/meetings lined up for those days and will struggle to get sorted in time.

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jay55 · 10/02/2016 18:34

Do they really only have to give such short notice?

willowsummers · 10/02/2016 18:35

Plus, in fairness, I think you might struggle to find an au pair in ten days!

umptyflump · 10/02/2016 18:37

I don't know what notice they are required to give - I'm willing to bet they haven't thought of that. It is a school nursery (and I may be wrong on this) so there aren't contracts as such. I could withdraw DS without notice to be fair.

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GiddyOnZackHunt · 10/02/2016 18:38

Childminder?

umptyflump · 10/02/2016 18:40

Contacted the only childminder in the area. Last time I asked, there were no spaces. She's getting back to me.

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umptyflump · 10/02/2016 18:43

DS loves nursery. He'll be devastated if he can't go. I probably rather move him to the Thursday rather than him lose out, but if they are saying it is full and no-one else will move what can I do? I do think that he should have been prioritised for a space on the Thursday as he's been there a long time rather than admitting new people. But I don't know if that is BU.

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umptyflump · 10/02/2016 18:44

*would probably rather

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Twowrongsdontmakearight · 10/02/2016 18:44

That is ridiculously short notice. Are there any others being affected that you could buddy up with and share till you get alternative childcare sorted.

umptyflump · 10/02/2016 18:46

No just me Twowrongs. Although I can't really understand how, as there were 6 - 8 kids there on Monday.

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BrandNewAndImproved · 10/02/2016 18:51

I wonder if they've told you all the same story about everyone else now moving days... Can you speak to the other parents?

umptyflump · 10/02/2016 18:53

I will be asking around Brandnew.

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Karoleann · 10/02/2016 19:21

What does your contract say? I'm pretty sure that they need to give you more notice than they have.

AvaLeStrange · 10/02/2016 19:26

Is your DS' place a 2ye funded one or one that you pay for privately? If the former and it's an LEA maintained school I would have thought they are on dubious ground tbh.

You need to ask if they have copies of policies regarding this kind of thing in the first instance and take it from there.

I guess they can't employ someone on a Monday purely to care for your DS, but it does all sound rather odd and unlikely.

PegsPigs · 10/02/2016 19:30

Monday is the busiest day for childcare round our way so very surprised they're withdrawing that day and at such short notice. YANBU

Ragusa · 10/02/2016 19:32

This sounds like a 2 yr old disadvantage school nursery place.

It's really hard for you but on the other hand schools are hardly rolling in funding and in many the nursery is heavily cross subsidised from the main bit of school funding. Very small schools' budgets can be particularly precarious.

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Lightbulbon · 10/02/2016 19:35

Contact your councillors or MP this is ridiculous!

littleducks · 10/02/2016 19:38

I think withdrawing the place is reasonable in the circumstances buy the notice is redicolous. Basically after half term no space?

I wouldn't have thought a school could do that

StatisticallyChallenged · 10/02/2016 19:44

Ridiculous notice - our contracts with parents ( childminder and after school club) all state we will give at least 1 month notice.

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