Recently, I went on holiday with someone. It was me, this person (we'll call them B) and DC. On this holiday, I planned all days out, cooked for everyone, did the shopping, cleaning, making sure DC was okay, keeping a close eye on DC etc. B did nothing. All they wanted to do was sit and watch "The great British bake off" and "big brother" on our holiday. One morning, DC was still sleeping and we'd planned what we were eating that day. I said "Oh, I need to pop out and get such and such for our dinner tonight" so B went and gave me a shopping list of what they wanted. I was getting ready to go (whilst DC was still asleep) and I said "If DC wakes whilst i'm out, are you okay to make them toast for breakfast? They can put their own butter etc on, all you need to do is put the bread in the toaster. If it's a problem, tell DC to wait for me to come home but don't let DC mess with the toaster." <br>Response from B was "I will" (meaning I will wait for you to come home). I came home to find DC starving and B in another room exercising. DC is not really young and IS my responsibility, so I completely understand that and I am NOT shifting responsibility to anyone else. I sorted it and we all went out. B asked if I could look at something on my phone for them. I turned around (literally two seconds) and DC dropped their ball in the main road. B just stood there whistling whilst a car almost hit DC. DC got a massive telling off for it - not blaming B at all.<br><br>My best friend just died in very tragic circumstances which I can't go into on here. I am absolutely devastated by their loss. I can't express how broken I really am. Anyway, I was speaking to B and they kept telling me they think i'm 'depressed' and they're 'worried' and all they want is for me to be happy. They said "your happiness means everything to me". <br>Me and B were talking about my best friend and how they died and I said 'I just want to forget about the circumstances to which it all happened and move on with my life'. I thought this was a perfectly reasonable response to what has happened.<br><br>The response I got back was "What? How can you say that? What kind of a person are you? selfish, that is what you are, selfish. <strong>friend</strong> was a huge part of your life and all you want to do is forget them? How horrible of you. Obviously <strong>friend</strong> meant nothing to you if that's how you treat them. You have no respect for the dead." I explained I didn't mean I want to forget BF and B apologised.<br>I was absolutely devastated at having this said to me. BF meant everything to me and I have no idea how I will go on and live my life without them.<br><br>B apologised and I said it was fine (i'm very forgiving). I saw B later that day and B said "Just to let you know, I was going to be even ruder to you had you not justified your words". Later that day B was talking about BF AGAIN! and I was sitting down talking about all the things me and BF had planned and B went "Sorry, what did you say? I wasn't listening, I was thinking of my dog".<br><br>I am so hurt by all of this and want to end it all with B, but B is the only person I can really talk to about my feelings. When I think about it, I do think I should keep B in my life because we are very close, but seeing it all written down, B sounds vile.<br><br>I honestly feel like B is all I have right now. I don't want to lose another person from my life.<br><br>I really don't know what the best thing to do next is. Am I just being over-sensitive because I just lost BF? <br><br>Thank you for reading and i'm sorry it's so long.