please tell me if I'm about to BU.
we live next to 5 sharers. over the year they've been there, they've had quite a few parties. the parties drive us mad, as they often finish about 3 or 4 am.
for example, they had a party last summer from noon til very late and some guests threw beer bottles and rubbish into our garden. we had a quiet word to them the next day and the girls seemed really mortified, so we didn't report them to their landlord as we had been planning to. we invested in silicon earplugs which helped quite a bit.
2 new sharers moved in last month and the party schedule has ramped up. now we have mid week drunken singalongs to listen to (we also heard one flatmate screaming at the singers to get the f**k out of her house).
last night, one of the new flatmates popped over to say it was his birthday and he'd be having a few mates over. they started music at 830 and finished around 345-4am singing in the garden. dh asked them to turn the music off at 1, and they turned it down for a while but turned it back up at 2.
how many parties is too much, and what time in the evening/morning can you legitimately complain about noise? i've fallen out with neighbours before, and I know how awkward it can be which is why I've taken so long to think about making a formal complaint.
I'm about to call their landlord and complain... but my younger colleagues at work have told me before that I'm being unfair and "people have parties". fair enough - what's the line? please give me some guidance!
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neighbour parties- what's reasonable?
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LondonKiwiMummy · 07/02/2016 17:31
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